For me, I need to stop...

• waking up at night waiting for Nick to come home.
• wondering around midnight if Nick is still out with his friends drinking.
• waiting for the garage door to open signaling Nick is home.
• worrying and worrying and worrying and not sleeping.

For Nick, he needs to stop...

• going out every night.
• staying out until the early morning hours.
• partying and partying and partying.

This is what happens when your 23 year old comes home for a week.  It's not good!